{"id":35578,"date":"2025-09-06T05:51:28","date_gmt":"2025-09-06T05:51:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eurogamer.net\/article.php?article_id=2130124"},"modified":"2025-09-06T05:51:28","modified_gmt":"2025-09-06T05:51:28","slug":"afterparty-is-the-best-representation-of-what-missing-self-esteem-can-do-to-your-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arcader.org\/news\/afterparty-is-the-best-representation-of-what-missing-self-esteem-can-do-to-your-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Afterparty is the best representation of what missing self-esteem can do to your life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/arcader.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/afterparty-is-the-best-representation-of-what-missing-self-esteem-can-do-to-your-life.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Despite enjoying it during my initial review, I never connected to Afterparty in the same way as its predecessor Oxenfree, one of my favourite games. Both are narrative-focused &#8211; you walk two characters from A to B and pick dialogue options, some of these options will change the course the story takes. Your protagonists are young people with a very natural way of speaking &#8211; they mumble and interrupt each other should you so choose, sigh loud and use &#8220;like&#8221;, like&#8230; you know. <\/p>\n<p>I think I never liked Afterparty as much as Oxenfree because it&#8217;s a less hopeful continuation of the same problems &#8211; Oxenfree ends at a point where Alex can choose to go to college in a different state and start over, whereas Milo and Lola spend college just as miserable as before. They aren&#8217;t nice to each other. They may in fact be very tired of each other and ready to explore something new, but they&#8217;re also scared of letting go. <\/p>\n<p>Both games try to make a point about autonomy, about their protagonists never really being their own people, not only because they&#8217;re literally being controlled by you. Alex is trying to move on from a traumatic experience in her life and needs physical distance for that, and Lola wants to move town after college, which frightens Milo enough to sabotage even a tentative attempt to do so. Alex in Oxenfree by contrast is much more of a video game hero protagonist, as she has the power to alter reality and undo the source of her trauma. What actually happened on Edward&#8217;s Island, what happened to her brother before that, will be a thing only she remembers. I liked that option better, because what I want when thinking about traumatic experiences is a do-over. As Cher puts it: &#8220;If I could turn back time&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eurogamer.net\/articles\/2020-12-22-afterparty-is-the-best-representation-of-what-missing-self-esteem-can-do-to-your-life\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eurogamer.net\/articles\/2020-12-22-afterparty-is-the-best-representation-of-what-missing-self-esteem-can-do-to-your-life\">Source<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despite enjoying it during my initial review, I never connected to Afterparty in the same way as its predecessor Oxenfree, one of my favourite games. Both are narrative-focused &#8211; you walk two characters from A to B and pick dialogue options, some of these options will change the course the story takes. Your protagonists are young people with a very natural way of speaking &#8211; they mumble and interrupt each other should you so choose, sigh loud and use &#8220;like&#8221;, like&#8230; you know. 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